I just found a beautiful post on http://girlsgotshine1.blogspot.com/2011/12/write-your-own-rules.html that I want to share with you.
"Maybe you can offer some insight?"That's what my friend said to me the other day. My poor friends - they're never sure what they're getting themselves into when they ask for my advice.
Specifically - what's the time-frame for first kisses - and beyond?
Personally, I'm torn on this issue. I've said before, I don't really follow "rules." I think sometimes, we need to do what feels right - and write our own rules.
Relationships involve people - and people are unique. You can have all the rules you want, but
things will play out differently with every new date, because the players are
different. You might be a strictly 3-dates-before-a-kiss kind of girl - until
you meet that one guy who is a game-changer.
things will play out differently with every new date, because the players are
different. You might be a strictly 3-dates-before-a-kiss kind of girl - until
you meet that one guy who is a game-changer.
Now, I've never been one to wait for a kiss - or much else, for that matter. Does that mean I run around sleeping with every guy I meet? No. But it does take an awful lot
for a guy to get to date number two. Sometimes, that means things can move
quickly - sometimes it doesn't.
for a guy to get to date number two. Sometimes, that means things can move
quickly - sometimes it doesn't.
It depends on the guy. I write a new set of rules with each one.
"Why is it we're willing to write our own vows, but not our own rules?" Sex and the City
